just about an hour ago,my boyfriend broke up with me so i dont know how often i will be using my cpu depending on where it is.
it will be at my parents soon but i dont want to be in this apartment.

hes broken my heart so bad and even though he will not be here,i need time away before i come get my stuff. :141:
i am sure i will be on but most of the time i will just be planning ahead for whats to come. and crying my eyes out.
thanks everyone for the support i know is coming from all of you,
stevie

OMG stevie hun, you know I will be here for you whenever you need to chat about anything, I am so sorry that you have to go through this, just remember we are all here to help in any situation hun, whether its RL or sims related, big hugs coming your way stevie, love n hugs xxxx

i'm so so sorry to hear that. just take your time hun. don't push your self to come back when your good and ready. but you will be missed. myself and Angie will be thinking of you. and remember hun. we all love you here. take care hun hope to see you again soon. here are some big hugs for you. XXXX

OMG I'm so sorry honey... I recently went though a break up too... they kill you inside, I know exactly how you're feeling... All you can really do is wait it out and let it all out. I hope he is hurting just as much as you! *Hugs* And look on the bright side - you at least have somewhere you can go If you need someone to talk to, my email is shyneinnocence@hotmail.com

thanks guys,i knew i could all count on you. it means so much to have people that care.
i will be on later. i need sleep. its almost 5:30am here and i have had like no sleep from all my crying.

but i will be at my parents house soon where i feel safe and loved by my dog who will lay next to me and sleep while i watch tv at there house....or well my house now.

Good luck *HUGS*

I am very sorry to hear that Stevie. Best of luck!

I am sure a lot of us know how you feel right now

miss_lochness wrote:

I am very sorry to hear that Stevie. Best of luck!

I am sure a lot of us know how you feel right now

so true. don't matter if your a woman or a man. it still hurts the same.

stevielee88 wrote:

just about an hour ago,my boyfriend broke up with me so i dont know how often i will be using my cpu depending on where it is.
it will be at my parents soon but i dont want to be in this apartment.

hes broken my heart so bad and even though he will not be here,i need time away before i come get my stuff. :141:
i am sure i will be on but most of the time i will just be planning ahead for whats to come. and crying my eyes out.
thanks everyone for the support i know is coming from all of you,
stevie

I'm so sorry Stevie. I think we have all been there at some point and we all know how unbearable the pain is at first.
Only time can heal a broken heart, some people don't know how true that is.

We are all here for you, and I mean that in the most sincere way. No matter what it is you want to talk about, I'm here if you need to relieve some of the stress.

Feel better love!

Stevie your post bought tears to my eyes, and yes, we all have experienced some form of heartbreak. It really and truly saddens me something like this happens you know with the distance between us...you need us the most...and we can't physically be there. But never ever forget we are there for you in spirit and in heart!

If you need to talk don't hesitate to contact me or any of these lovely people that have reached out to you. It's his loss and he will soon realize that.

The heartache will be intense for a bit, but always look forward to when it starts to subside.

When I went through my divorce I remember one day just praying for God to make me not love him anymore. I don't know if he ever did, but I do recall the day I realized that it didn't hurt anymore.

Hugs and love and remember we are here.

Cece

hey guys,just letting you know i am still alive.

i am just too sad to do anything really.

i packed stuff up today,got home and started to ball and now i am going to once more.

i will talk to you all soon i hope

I am sorry to hear that Stevie

But think that is worse that your boyfriend break with you the day of your birthday

I hope you get better hun , kisses!

stevie hun, hang in there as it will get better trust me, a lot of us have been where you are and you will get stronger day by day love n hugs you know where I am if you need me for anything xx xx

Oh my Stevielee...Hun I wish we could be there to help cheer you up. Like Ang said...we all have been in your shoes and no one wishes that kind of pain and heartache on anyone else.

Hugs to you across the miles. And crying is good...at least for me...it truly helps me heal faster.

cecesaun1 wrote:

Oh my Stevielee...Hun I wish we could be there to help cheer you up. Like Ang said...we all have been in your shoes and no one wishes that kind of pain and heartache on anyone else.

Hugs to you across the miles. And crying is good...at least for me...it truly helps me heal faster.

As Will Ferrell (ahem, my hero) says, its how you get the "sad" out of you. No matter how funny that is, it is very very very true.

hey guys,should be on more tomarrow. got the last of my shit to get out of his apartment and i can move on with my life.

if not on tomarrow,then by monday for sure.

its late here,i am looking on the web for a little and then going to bed.
night all

Yeah...Stevielee is coming back!!!! Great to see you moving on hun!!

stevielee88 wrote:

hey guys,should be on more tomarrow. got the last of my shit to get out of his apartment and i can move on with my life.

if not on tomarrow,then by monday for sure.

its late here,i am looking on the web for a little and then going to bed.
night all

you go girl. be strong and leave all the bad stuff behind you. men like that are not worth thinking about. good on you for being so strong. all the best to you in witch ever direction you go next. and we are all here for you when or if you ever need us XX

hi stevie hun, I am so happy to see you being so strong hun, I have missed you over the past few days but hopefully will catch up with you soon, take each new day as it comes, keep your head up and all will be well in the end

I haven't had the chance to get to know you yet (damn RL being busy) I want to show my support

I recently had that heartbreaking feeling when I found naked pictures on my husbands computer from some woman from a gaming site he goes to, and a cyber sex conversation that happened before we were married and I moved to canada, but while we were engaged.

So I know that feeling of absolute betrayal all too well

Hang in there, you can find that strength! The future ahead is full of surprises and new possibilities

Pistolkitten wrote:

I haven't had the chance to get to know you yet (damn RL being busy) I want to show my support

I recently had that heartbreaking feeling when I found naked pictures on my husbands computer from some woman from a gaming site he goes to, and a cyber sex conversation that happened before we were married and I moved to canada, but while we were engaged.

So I know that feeling of absolute betrayal all too well

Hang in there, you can find that strength! The future ahead is full of surprises and new possibilities

I found child porn on my ex's computer. He said he was gonna give it up... that it was wrong... then I found some more, about 3 months later.
I also found conversations of him trying to see someone's boobs. I confronted him with it and he swore to me it wasn't true. I told him that I'd read the convo... and he was upset with me because I read it -_-

Shyne wrote:

Pistolkitten wrote:

I haven't had the chance to get to know you yet (damn RL being busy) I want to show my support

I recently had that heartbreaking feeling when I found naked pictures on my husbands computer from some woman from a gaming site he goes to, and a cyber sex conversation that happened before we were married and I moved to canada, but while we were engaged.

So I know that feeling of absolute betrayal all too well

Hang in there, you can find that strength! The future ahead is full of surprises and new possibilities

I found child porn on my ex's computer. He said he was gonna give it up... that it was wrong... then I found some more, about 3 months later.
I also found conversations of him trying to see someone's boobs. I confronted him with it and he swore to me it wasn't true. I told him that I'd read the convo... and he was upset with me because I read it -_-

OMG!! Child porn!! I hope you drop kicked his ass so quick and far out the door as possible!!! And then he tried to turn the tables on you....darn that kind of man that can't stand up to his own mistakes!!!!!

Sick pervert!! You should have saved everything and turned his ass in to the police!!!

And PK...drop kick his arse to the curb!!! If you haven't already...I was so shocked reading your post, you and Mary's that I can't remember if you referred to your problem as an 'ex'. Geez...what is this world coming to nowaday's? And my parents wonder why I'm still single and haven't remarried...Sick you know what's!!

Yeah well... I forgave far too much... because he promised to change... He is evil... but no-one else in the world knows

for my experience with men goes back 21yrs, my first husband, when i was only 18 was a wife beater, I thought I could cope with the beatings, he stabbed me in my back twice for fun, we had a daughter and it got worse, one day i was holding her she was about 3 months old, she was crying, he got angry went to hit me but got her, something in me turned and i calmly put her in the crib went to the kitchen and grabbed the carving knife and chased him down the street, i stopped and remembered i had left louise in her crib, i walked back to the house locked the door and cared for my baby, i havent seen or heard from him since.
my second husband was a control freak, for 14 yrs i gave up my friends and freedom to have him put me down and control what i wore what i done who i could be friends with, it got to the stage where he would call me upto 30 times a day to see where i was and who i was talking to. I left him 3yrs ago after a long time trying to build up the courage.
Now I am so happy with the man I am with, he is the kindest sweetest loving man I have ever met, he treats me with respect and never puts me down, the only hands he lays on me are loving caresses, he is always asking me if i need anything, he tells me he loves me all the time. YOU all know him it is of course Brian. Dont give up on love ladies as there is that one special person out there for you and you will meet and wonder why it took so long. final note to Brian, you make my world complete I LOVE YOU xx

Awwwwwwwww that's sweet Terrible to hear about your first two relationships... I'm really glad you found Brian. Love will come to me, if it's to be. My first relationship was ultimately a good one... I tried talking to him again recently... But he is insane now... weighed down by all his depression. It's a scary thing... how people really are, when you take a second glance with wiser eyes.

It will find you when its the right time, I am a true beleiver in whats meant to be will be. I am sure there is someone out there in this world for everyone and if you havent met them already you will. I bumped into a guy i had a huge crush on in school, it was about 10yrs after we left school, he was the most popular boy, tall blonde with the athletic body, you know the type, at school i was short, fat and pimply, when i met him i had lost the weight had no pimples and was not bad looking, lol, he was huge, had rotten teeth and was going bald, I couldnt beleive it........lol

LOL! Yeah totally how it goes hun, totally how it goes! :D

Gotta hate that wiser eye for only working 'after' the fact...but some of us choose to ignore it then and step even deeper into mess. I had a controlling relationship with the last boyfriend...but easily and quickly kicked him to the curb.

Like I've said...not looking for it...because I know it will come to me!