Broomie...as I know you have left already...I still feel a need to speak out on this.
I'm seriously surprised that someone who just yesterday, last night to be precise can be on the site, commenting, laughing, joking with others can turn around the very next day and post such hurtful words.
Broomie, if it is your intention to leave a place, why do you feel it's necessary to leave with saying such nasty comments regarding others on the site and the site. You may have not directly spoke against anyone, but in a whole you have.
We have some truly BEAUTIFUL members on this site with nothing but BEAUTIFUL SOULS!! People who go out of there way to assist someone, cheer someone up or just be there for each other.
Like Evie stated, and no Evie I don't mind you posting this, there are TWO SIDES to every story...sadly we can't/won't tell the entire back drop to this out of respect to the parties involved.
Every site is going to have some problems at one time or another and I'm proud to say that Cstyles has been drama free for over a year...and with it being a site only a year and some months old...I'd say that is pretty good.
You make a statement that we don't like to ban...that still stands true. I've always expressed this, but since someone has been banned, why throw that up? Not wanting to ban someone...and HAVING to ban someone are two totally different things.
I think some people join a site to only try and cause problems, while the majority join to experience the fun. I'm glad that the majority are the fun and not the other way around!
This will not be the first time Cstyles has had problems and won't be the last...it's just par for the course with ANY site. We anticipate this, but we don't go looking for it either.
How it can be stated that this is a site that doesn't approve of having your own opinion, then why do we go out of our way to make sure that members can enjoy their privacy in certain areas of the site. Why is this said place aptly called the 'bullshit' box? Actually it's called the 'party and bullshit' box...because it is a place where there is nothing but total freedom there. Freedom that NO site can just place out in the open. We have young people visit and members of this site, and we do try out best to not only protect them but appease the older crowd as well.
Trying to keep so many people happy is not easy, never will be easy and never will never happen. There are some people who just like the darkness that surrounds them, envelopes them and they want to try and bring others to their misery.
I'm glad you decided to leave only because I'd hate anyone to stay that is that unhappy with the situations. You have seriously exaggerated the whole incident and I'm truly trying to understand why.
The only conclusion I can come to is, you are upset because your SISTER got banned and I guess you are trying to speak up and out for her. That is totally understandable and forgivable.
But in all honesty....you and I both know that all you have done is try to stir up a hornets nest with your comments and remarks.
Broomie when you decide to do something...do it for you...but don't try to hurt other parties involved or not involved as this case is.
Like I stated...this whole thing sounds NOTHING like you...it's even harder to believe that you actually wrote this because as I've stated, this seems nothing like you and is totally out of your nature.
To all other members, we have to maintain order and a sense of calm, at least as much as possible. Not every member is going to be happy as well as not every member will be upset. I'm doing the best I can to keep this site running as smoothly as possible, Evie and EvaTer, Angie and Miss_Lochness...we all are dedicating our time to assure you the best possible experience possible when you visit Cstyles.
No one gets paid one dime to put in all the time we do on here, we do it because we care, because we want too, and because we enjoy it...but when you have someone step in and try to be hurtful...it hurts more than just a few people...it hurts many.
I'm very hurt by your comments as I'm sure the rest of the staff as well as some members are.
I wish you nothing but the best and hopefully you will find a site that is pristine and has NO problems whatsoever at any given time.
He just makes my belly button smilez!