Here I iz!! I'm gonna get of here before the sunrise can catch me...which is not far away!!! But I will be back on laterz this afternoon!!

cecesaun1 wrote:

Here I iz!! I'm gonna get of here before the sunrise can catch me...which is not far away!!! But I will be back on laterz this afternoon!!

See you then, Cece. I just finished eating authentic Indian curry... from the jar HAHAHA Oh and macadamia and honey and caramel ice cream ;) In case you didn't know I'm a day ahead of you, here in Aussie. When you're waking up I'm going to bed lol Thanks for making me feel so welcome here, Cece, it's so lonely on my blog alone sometimes. I have my regulars but they don't hang out like people hang out here. It's a lovely atmosphere for me. I'm far too casual to get wound up about anything. If anything bothers me, I'll pm you and get some support so things don't go nuts lol

There is a whole day between us?!! Wow...shows the wonders of the internet huh? Cool. I'm glad that you are a calm person who doesn't get wound up easily, I'm pretty much like that also. The only way that can change is if it's something hitting me day, after day after day then when it starts to get stressful...then all I'm trying to do is walk away...calm down, get my thoughts in check...step back...repeat...until it's all over. Not an easy task sometimes but I find it helps to do that so things are not said that you can never take back

And anytime you want to pm hun please don't hesitate...any questions, anything...if you just need to chat...pm, I am here so much of the day off and on.

Well...let's go to the grocery store now...I'm trying my best to NOT have to be tortured and go another day without chocolate icecream.

LOL Yes those days without chocolate ice cream are the worst I just told one of my friends that I never wanted to hear from nor speak to him again... his wife rang me up one day, a while back, and abused me for trying to steal her husband... She did this SEVERAL times, texted me, called me hideous names, etc etc. And yesterday he adds me as a friend. So I sent him a message saying: Did you know what your wife did? And he's all like: Yeah... she's my wife. I love her.
I got so angry... I only said I 'missed him'... and they both took that as me 'MISSING him' lol Grrrrrrrrrrr how dare people treat me like that, when I wear my heart on my sleeve. I gave everything to that boy and he just assumed I was a slut. I've never, ever been with a guy outside of a relationship, and I've only ever had TWO lol I won't make that mistake again, to tell a married man I miss him
But that wasn't the issue, the issue was that he let his wife say those things to me, as though they were true. He didn't send me an email, anything, to apologise. He didn't even apologise this morning. So no. I deserve at least an I'm sorry.

Wow...what a penis head!!! Both of them, him for letting her speak to you that way and shrugging it over his shoulder like you have no feelings whatsoever, and her for being a jerk...attacking you and NOT him. I hate that scenario! When my husband, ex-husband to be exact now...ex for this upcoming reason, had his affair, I didn't attack her...I approached him. Believe it or not...I didn't blow up or become front page news the next day...I'm still surprised at how calm I remained.

I eventually spoke to her, a supposed acquaintance of mine..*hmpf* but...we live and learn. Even when I spoke to her I didn't blow up and show out...still very calm, exact and to the point. She knew I meant business and all I said...'there is a old song that say', if you cheat on your wife for me, you'd cheat on me for someone else'...' I told her...Karma is a beotch. And guess what...I spoke serious words of truth.

They are now going through a divorce. He cheated.

I wish no ill will on anyone...no matter how horrible they are, I don't believe in the death penalty because I don't feel it's our choice to make a decision of life or death.

I can truly get upset though when someone hurts my family or close friends.

You will get a rise out of me then.

So, back on to Ms. Mary....I'd just remove him as friend, but not before you tell him to kiss your butt and die!!!....Ok....dramatic...seriously...I'd just write him in comments...so everyone can see it...to NOT even attempt to contact you about being his friend...again. Or something like that. It's hard to think of what angry to say when I'm not angry.

But people are crazy and obviously his wife has some serious issues...

Stay safe!!

Yeah they're on the other side of the country, thank god, and I already blocked him. I didn't desire to make it public.

I've been cheated on too. Cheats are scum. I will eventually be on my deathbed... and once I am, I am going to murder a cheater lol I'm sorry about what happened to you... but you're better off without him

Of course I am!! I mean this man looks at va-jay's all day long but seriously never saw him as a cheater. he took his work very seriously...and it wasn't a patient...it was his nurse so I guess he didn't break any rules. He has had nothing but misery since and I can't even gloat...I mean some horrible misery...one he found his brother dead, been dead for almost 4 months in the garage of his brothers home.

THAT is a thing I don't think even the devil could get out of his mind.

I don't know...I sometimes think I'm flawed regarding relationships...I think I'm too nice, too faithful and trusting....but still...I'm a lot wiser than I used to be.

They say cheaters never win and winners never cheat...or something like that... What is that saying....? Oh well...something similar to it!! I need to find out what that saying is exactly and make me a siggy of it!

LOL Yeah well... I don't bother with men anymore. Whenever I'm not a whiney little bitch and weak little child and actually tell them how I feel, they start to get all me me me on my arse. So I give up, I'll never find a man who respects me and puts me first, it's always gotta be about them. It's the male ego. And I used to love that, until I found out I had needs too.

sorry for butting in ladies................I need to say yep I too have been cheated on and much worse but women are stronger than they look, I too am trusting and wear my heart on my sleeve. Now not ALL men are like that, I have found or should I say we found each other, a man who does treat me well and loves me for who I am and I am a firm believer in a little saying my mum says "Whats for yie, will no go by yie" meaning whats meant to be for you will be for you, and there is someone out there Mary that will come into your life and you will know he was made just for you.

ok back to reading, again sorry for intruding

angie247 wrote:

sorry for butting in ladies................I need to say yep I too have been cheated on and much worse but women are stronger than they look, I too am trusting and wear my heart on my sleeve. Now not ALL men are like that, I have found or should I say we found each other, a man who does treat me well and loves me for who I am and I am a firm believer in a little saying my mum says "Whats for yie, will no go by yie" meaning whats meant to be for you will be for you, and there is someone out there Mary that will come into your life and you will know he was made just for you.

ok back to reading, again sorry for intruding

You're always welcome to comment, love. And I really don't know... I've been chewed up and spat out too many times... Thank you for your support, and I'm glad you've found a good guy. They are rare ;)

Hiya Mary. Like Angie just said we found each other. well i'm 38 years old and Angie is 41 years old. we have both had a mad past. i for one have never cheated on anyone or ever would. i'm had it done to me it's not nice at all. i've even and someone say they where having my child and to find out it was all a lie. she said it to try to get me back after i left. then to find she was sleeping around wile i was working.

your still young hun and still have a lot of life to live.

take me and Angie. making a long story short. we have both been married before and had our really bad times. and bad relationships before that. i met Angie through Facebook about 3 years ago on a chat thing called Friendzii. started chating with each other then became friends on our profiles then went on to chating on the phone and msn. 6 months this all went on for. and we got closer and closer as friends and then one day we both said to each other we where having feelings for each other. so i drove 9 hours to go and see Angie for the first time face to face. at this time we both just know where we wanted to be. after i visited Angie in her home town. 1 week later i left my job, family and all my friends to be with Angie. now it's been 2 years now living together and will be 3 years since we first spoke on Facebook. still to this day i have never been so happy and so in love as i am now. Angie treats me and respects me like i have only ever dreamed of before. we are so happy together and we have so much fun.

now when i sa 2 years. thats 2 years side by side 24 hours a day. as Angie can't work as for back problems and having an operation on her spine. and i'm her home carer. so yes we spend a lot of time together. and not once have we had a fight over anything we just don't argue. also we sit in the same room everyday all day. we to P.C in the living room so we can see each other all of the time.



so there is always someone out there for all of us. some people find then when they are young some when they are older. you will find true love one day hun. just enjoy life wile you alive do everything you can and enjoy. don't go looking for love. love will find you. as it did with me and Angie we found each other XX

BrianD72 wrote:

Hiya Mary. Like Angie just said we found each other. well i'm 38 years old and Angie is 41 years old. we have both had a mad past. i for one have never cheated on anyone or ever would. i'm had it done to me it's not nice at all. i've even and someone say they where having my child and to find out it was all a lie. she said it to try to get me back after i left. then to find she was sleeping around wile i was working.

your still young hun and still have a lot of life to live.

take me and Angie. making a long story short. we have both been married before and had our really bad times. and bad relationships before that. i met Angie through Facebook about 3 years ago on a chat thing called Friendzii. started chating with each other then became friends on our profiles then went on to chating on the phone and msn. 6 months this all went on for. and we got closer and closer as friends and then one day we both said to each other we where having feelings for each other. so i drove 9 hours to go and see Angie for the first time face to face. at this time we both just know where we wanted to be. after i visited Angie in her home town. 1 week later i left my job, family and all my friends to be with Angie. now it's been 2 years now living together and will be 3 years since we first spoke on Facebook. still to this day i have never been so happy and so in love as i am now. Angie treats me and respects me like i have only ever dreamed of before. we are so happy together and we have so much fun.

now when i sa 2 years. thats 2 years side by side 24 hours a day. as Angie can't work as for back problems and having an operation on her spine. and i'm her home carer. so yes we spend a lot of time together. and not once have we had a fight over anything we just don't argue. also we sit in the same room everyday all day. we to P.C in the living room so we can see each other all of the time.



so there is always someone out there for all of us. some people find then when they are young some when they are older. you will find true love one day hun. just enjoy life wile you alive do everything you can and enjoy. don't go looking for love. love will find you. as it did with me and Angie we found each other XX

Thank you I am glad you found each other. Love is a wonderful thing, when it lasts forever... *sigh*

you will find to hun. sometimes it just takes time. before i met Angie i really thought i would never find true love and happiness. XX

Men are nicer the older they get. They start to realise that a woman is more than just a vagina -_-

i can honestly say i've always been like i am. it's also the way i was raised by my parents X

I just need to move to Scotland then to find men my age like you lol

i'm not from Scotland hun. but i do have some Scottish blood. and it don't matter where your from or where you live. when i say it was the way i was raised by my parents. my brother is the oposit to me. bad tempered ect. i once put my brother in hospital for hitting his wife. i gave him some of his own medicine. i don't take kindly to men hitting women. if i ever felt like hitting a woman i would walk out of the relationship i was in. my ex wife was from Thailand. all she wanted was money and a visa. so that was it. i got out. i lost so much. but now i got so much back and more when i met Angie. X

Ah ok. Well no matter where he's from, he definitely won't be able to hit me. I have a PT baby! hahaha

sory whats the PT baby ?????????

Personal Trainer hehehehe

ah right. i did once think of training to be one my self. i've not done any training in a long time. mmmmm maybe i should get back ing to it. i use to do a lot of Football,boxing,Martial Arts and weight training. i use to train 3 times a week and swimming once a week. i'm a bit un fit at the moment LOL was playing footballs with one of the boy the over day and have been sore for a few days now lol

I have to agree with Brian and Ang...there is someone out there for everyone....I think a mistake so many of us make is rushing out there and looking for someone. A lot of times we are so busy in our search that mr/ms right pass us right by.

I've not gave up on love, but I'm also not looking for it either. I feel that when it's time for me to be in love then it will happen. I do admit that I miss being in love and the feeling of being in love, but it's not worth it to get in a relationship with someone only to have them turn out to be worthless.

And Shyne when all they see when they see a female is a vagina...run girl..run fast in the other direction. Way too immature!!! I realize that women mature faster than men, (at least it's been said) and I think that is purely due to the maternal side of our nature. And guys are so used to being cared for by their moms, then girlfriends and then it carries off to wives. But on the other side...women...once again...allow it because it's in our nature.

You do get the occassional Brian who willingly give up everything to take care of their woman but sadly it's so rare to find such an unselfish person...

Don't give up...just don't go looking...let it come to you.

*forgivez typo's...tired

LOL I personally have no opinion on the topic anymore, I just know men from what are my previous experiences. It's not fair to judge the male population by generalising them... even though it's tempting! LOL