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PostSubject: I need some advice and help.   June 28th 2010, 1:18 pm


I got a phone call from a friend (not a friend anymore) named jessica. She told me that she got caught by the cops (shes a minor and she was drinking and planning to drive). She told the police that she was me. Shes up in washington state and I'm here in california, but I have a washington ID and I don't have proof that I've been living here for over a year. She begged me not to rat her out. But if a "Stevie Fischer" doesn't show up to court on the court date given, a "Stevie Fischer" will have a warrant out for her arrest. I don't know what to do...
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PostSubject: Re: I need some advice and help.   June 28th 2010, 1:20 pm

Do you look like her? :S

I say tell the police there. I'm bad with RL stuff, and thats mostly my response xD

I hope everything goes well O.O

PSST. Rat her out, then punch her in the face.
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PostSubject: Re: I need some advice and help.   June 28th 2010, 1:24 pm

I just can't believe someone would do such a thing... I mean, if she went to jail (I'm almost positive that she did say she went) they finger print you. So I have her fingerprint on my record now. In the end, I need to do something about this, but I don't think I should have to. I didn't do anything and I shouldn't have to take care of HER problem. She should be a good enough person to walk in to the police station and tell them everything. But instead, I'm left to pick up her pieces....

I do look like her, well in the past I did, people always thought we were twins or sisters. I guess we look a lot different now. But still.
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PostSubject: Re: I need some advice and help.   June 28th 2010, 1:41 pm

I can not believe I am answering this because it's just so stupid and unfair to you.

I can't honestly believe someone would do this to another person, it's unkind and mean and messy. But in case she isn't teasing you and she did do this, you're gonna have to take this seriously. You don't want someone else's prints on your record. Records aren't just for when you do things bad, they are also used for identification..and if you were in an accident or something else happened to you it would confuse the system and your family may not get notified.

Now, this is gonna sound bitchy because she was your friend..but if she did do this then she isn't your friend now and so I say screw her. Shame on her for doing that it was childish and she only had her own agenda in mind and not your well being..so, you take all the steps you need to in order to clear this up.

And yes it does suck, you so shouldn't have to fix this..I'm sorry
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PostSubject: Re: I need some advice and help.   June 28th 2010, 1:52 pm

So I just found out that she didn't spend a night in jail, so they didn't finger print her, so thats a relief. But they did take her picture. (she might have been lying there, since I don't understand why they would take her picture). But she did get a ticket and she does have a court date. Or should I say, I have a ticket, and I have a court date. Augh. What a pain in me arse. This is so childish and I just can't believe this is happening to me.
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PostSubject: Re: I need some advice and help.   June 28th 2010, 1:53 pm

I'd talk to an actual officer or someone trained to sort out liars. The police must of delt with a situation like this before. They'll have a better idea what's happening from experience. Then you can decide what the right course of action would be. And I'd rat her out. You don't live in washington anymore, you aren't jessica.

Detectives are good at reading a person's tells, body movements and posture that give away the fact that you're lying. Having you lawyer would be a good idea. See exactly what you're getting into.
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PostSubject: Re: I need some advice and help.   June 28th 2010, 3:33 pm

That's completely ridiculous. There is no way a good friend or otherwise should basically commit identity theft. She can put you in a lot of trouble that you don't deserve at all. It wouldn't even be a situation I had to think over, I would go right to the authorities and report her and wouldn't feel bad about it for a second. She didn't feel bad about using giving your identification to the police which is a HUGE betrayal so you shouldn't feel bad about setting the record straight. It doesn't matter if you like her or not or if you gave her your word, she has no respect for you at all if she could do something like that.
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PostSubject: Re: I need some advice and help.   June 28th 2010, 4:39 pm

I guess she said she used my name because this charge would have ended up in a felony because of all of her past charges. I don't know what to do. She used my name, and my other friends birthday and address. She said her name was "Stevie May Fischer" but mine is Stevie LEIGH fischer. So I don't know. I'm going to think it over today and if I truly believe that this could end up as a warrant for my arrest I'm going to call and tell the popo whats up...
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PostSubject: Re: I need some advice and help.   June 28th 2010, 10:36 pm

I've had this happen to me
Well not the exact situation but something similar
An ex boyfriend was caught robbing a convienance store with some random homeless dude and when picked up by the cops he told them he was with me all night, as was the homeless dude (lol)

The owner of my building told me he had used me as an alibi and that I should contact the cops to clear my name, as I could be charge as an accessory, however I know better than to piss off my ex. I wanted till the cops came to visit me, told them the truth, which was the only thing i WAS going to do, he was on camera ffs lol


Personally in your unique situation I would call the cops. This ''friend'' needs a wake up call, and as soon as she used your name to save her own ass she officially unfriended herself.
Now that she has contacted you she has made you an accessroy to her crime, its no longer identity theift if you actually know what she has done, calling you and telling you she has offically made you an accomplice.
Call the cops sounds like the bitch needs some jail time, don't feel bad about it either, some people need a punch in the face before they stop being total destructive morons.
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PostSubject: Re: I need some advice and help.   June 28th 2010, 10:59 pm

Report her. You already said she is NO longer a friend so what do you have to lose reporting her? Do you want this on your file. Mess up your car insurance, job possibilities, credit even?

They may have her pictures but they have your name. Now how she was able to take this as far as she has is beyond me. They would have to ask for her social security number and I'm sure she doesn't have that does she.

What she did to you is a crime in itself and she should be reported for identity theft. If she would use your name to escape a ticket or jail don't you think she would be just as heartless to use your name to obtain credit (if she hasn't already) in your name? This girl could basically ruin you forever!!

Get of the net and get on the phone and REPORT HER TRIFLING ARSE!!!

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PostSubject: Re: I need some advice and help.   June 28th 2010, 11:35 pm

She's digging herself deeper and deeper. Don't be dragged down with her.

Simple as that I think
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PostSubject: Re: I need some advice and help.   June 28th 2010, 11:41 pm

Well good news. I just talked to my sister and she told me that either I need to take care of it or she'll be calling the police department in my home town and giving all the information. So I guess its getting taken care of.
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PostSubject: Re: I need some advice and help.   June 29th 2010, 5:01 am

Thats good Evie!
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PostSubject: Re: I need some advice and help.   June 29th 2010, 6:36 pm

Well I'm glad its getting cleared up for you.
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PostSubject: Re: I need some advice and help.   July 8th 2010, 5:08 pm

That's kind of awful. Just be honest ;) I wouldn't let other people destroy my life.
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PostSubject: Re: I need some advice and help.   July 20th 2010, 4:55 pm

RAT HER OUT!! if i where you i'd be so angry that i'd want her to be behind bars!
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PostSubject: Re: I need some advice and help.   July 24th 2010, 12:49 pm

i agree with everyone else Evie. She needs to be ratted out, and I'm glad its getting taken care of. You shouldnt have to take the punches for her mistakes. Its sad that she has had previous charges but you know what? its her own fault and she needs to pay for her mistakes. I hope all ends well on your part of this because you are a great and amazing person! you dont deserve that treatment. <3
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PostSubject: Re: I need some advice and help.   February 10th 2011, 10:51 pm

that is dam right sad. if anyone done anything like that to me i would break some bones. but then i can be harsh when i'm agree. but if your a true of mine than you got friend in me for life.

i would put her right in the s**t. well good luck and hope you get it sorted. :) :)
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